Today, this website has reached a milestone that I’m quite excited about! http://www.Mommysonadiet.net reached 20 THOUSAND views today! To celebrate, I’m launching a contest! All you have to do to be entered is go to the blog, and leave a legitimate comment on one of the recipes you have tried, or can’t wait to try. For each recipe you comment on, you get entered into a drawing. Now is a great time to leave feedback on all the recipes you’ve tried from the site. Next Friday, May 30 at 9pm EST I will draw a winner, and that winner will receive a $10 gift card to Target! Winner will be contacted, and announced on my facebook group “mommy’s on a diet.” So, remember, the more you comment, the better your chances are to win!!!! Be sure to use your real name in the comment so I know it’s you (or message me your screen name on fb). Good Luck!
Sam- meatball bandit!
4 MarThis guy stole the meatballs and ate them, turning what I intended to be a “turkey meatball and marinara pasta” recipe into a “homemade marinara” recipe. Scoundrel. But, how could I stay mad at that face!? *sigh*
To see that marinara recipe, click here!
https://mommysonadiet.wordpress.com/2014/03/03/homemade-marinara-sauce/
So, Here’s my progress so far….. 67 lbs down, about 40 to go!
17 OctSo, first, thank you guys for following my progress, and offering encouragement and support. As many of you know, we started our weight loss journey on Jan 6 of this year. Although the progress has slowed significantly in the past few months, our journey continues. For now, here’s a snapshot or two of our progress!!! Please keep checking in for more recipes and updates!
What is “Basal Metabolic Rate” and Why Should I Care About It?
17 JulWhat I Recently Learned about BMR and Weight Loss
So, as many of you know, I’ve been on my “weight loss journey” for about 6 months now, and I’ve lost a total of 50 lbs. And, also, many of you know that I use a program called “loseit” to track my daily calorie intake and also my exercise (my fitness pal is similar).
Loseit (and MFP) allows you to enter information about yourself (height, weight, age, etc) as well as a rate at which you’d like to lose weight. (ie anywhere from .5 lbs per week to 2 lbs per week) And in turn, it uses that data to calculate the number of calories you can eat per day, and achieve that weekly weight loss goal.
When I started, I had a LOT of weight to lose. I only consider myself to be “halfway to where I’m going” after 50 lbs. That said, I began my journey with a weight loss goal of 2 lbs per week, and for about 4 months I met that goal religiously. About 4 weeks ago, I noticed that my weight loss had slowed down to about 1 lb per week on average. This didn’t make sense to me since I had been following the same program, the same way, for 6 months. My curious nature led me to do some research so I could better understand what my body needs to resume quicker weight loss.
What is BMR?
BMR Stands for “Basal Metabolic Rate”. Essentially, your BMR indicates how many calories a day your body specifically requires simply in order to exist. It’s the number of calories burned by breathing, circulating blood, blinking, regulating body heat, etc. Simply put, if you were in a coma, and remained motionless for a full day, your BMR would be the # of calories you would burn during that time.
BMR is also the formula programs like “LOSEIT” and “MY FITNESS PAL” use to calculate your daily caloric intake recommendations.
Why Do I Need to Know This?
I assumed, as many do, that I could stay on loseit forever and continue losing 2 lbs per week, as long as I followed the recommended calorie budget. I was wrong. What I learned is that the rate at which your body processes calories changes, based on how big you are, essentially. That being said, when I began my journey, I was very big, and I could afford to have the sort of calorie deficit that causes a 2 lb loss. However, as you get smaller, your body can’t function properly at a deficit that high. Meaning, suddenly I reached a threshold where my body couldn’t sustain a 2 lb loss every week. The smaller you get, the slower you lose.
You need to really pay attention to what your BMR is, and adjust your weekly weight loss goals to match it. Ideally, your daily calorie budget should be about 100 calories above your BMR. (because BMR doesn’t take into account calories burned by doing things like brushing your hair, getting dressed, walking to your car, etc, so you need to allow enough calories to perform those functions).
For example: If you weight 230 lbs, your body can function with a large calorie deficit, and continue to lose at a rate of 2 lbs per week. However, if you weigh 180, a more reasonable goal would be 1 or 1.5 lbs per week.
See, if you don’t adjust your goals to match your MBR, you run the risk of falling into what people refer to as “starvation mode.” This is where you find yourself consuming less calories than your body requires to perform basic functions (breathing, sleeping, regulating temperature, etc) and as a result, your body stops burning the calories you DO eat, because it needs to use them all to keep you breathing. If you consistently eat significantly below your MBR you will see a stop in weight loss, and possibly negative physical side effects (like hair loss, which is one of the first signs of malnutrition). Or, in my case, if the deficit is less significant, you’ll just see a slow or stop in your losses.
How do I really know what Weekly Weight loss Goal/Calorie intake is Right for me?
1. Calculate your actual BMR. You can use this site to help: What’s My BMR?
2. Visit your weight loss program (MFP or Loseit in this case) to see what your daily calorie budget is.
3. If you daily calorie budget is less than your BMR, you need to adjust your “weekly goal” until they are within 100 calories of one another. (ie, I had to drop from 2 lbs/wk to 1.5)
I have to tell you: I wasn’t happy about the idea that I was going to lose more slowly. But, the fact is, that I was only losing 1 lb per week regardless. I came to terms with the idea that losing 1.5 consistently is better than expecting to lose 2 and only losing 1. Plus, at 2 lbs per week, I’d gotten to a daily budget of just over 1300 calories, which just wasn’t sustainable for me. It is AWFUL hard to stay at or below 1300 calories every single day. My new budget is about 1570 Calories, which is much more reasonable. Plus, my body needs those calories, which means, my body needs to slow down and lose at a rate that is appropriate for me NOW… not me 50 lbs ago.
One final thing I’ve learned before I go: you need to LOG YOUR EXERCISE so you know how many additional calories you’ve burned. And you need to EAT THOSE CALORIES so your body has enough calories to fuel that additional activity. If not, you’re just on the treadmill using up calories that were meant to help you breathe, or, keep your hair from falling out….. This will also keep you from losing. Most sources recommend eating about ½ of the calories you earn by exercising.
I know this is long. Thanks for sticking with me. I hope this has been helpful or beneficial to at least one of you out there in cyberspace. I know it’s really hard to adjust to the advice that “if you want to keep losing, you have to increase your calories and accept slower weight loss.” But essentially, that’s what I’ve found. Happy calorie-counting, and best of luck on your own journey!
PS: I’m not a doctor, a dietician, a nurse, a personal trainer, or any other kind of expert. Just a curious lady trying to lose weight who googled some stuff. If you have more questions, have a look around the internet and do some research on BMR.
100 lbs gone! My husband and I, together have reached a HUGE milestone!
19 JunThis entry will be short, and sweet…and to the (VERY EXCITING) point! Tonight, we are just 1 lb shy of the above referenced milestone, but I always weigh 2 lbs heavier at night, so I know that in the morning we will get there, and I wanted to share with you all.
Combined, my husband and I have lost a total of 100 LBS!!!! We began our weightloss journey on January 6, 2013…and it took us about 6 months to lose the weight. We are far from done. In fact, we’d each consider ourselves about halfway to where we want to be…. but I’m so proud of how far we’ve come! Check us out!!!!
If anyone’s interested in HOW we’re doing it. We’re losing a FREE app that counts calories for food and exercise, and budgets them for you daily. You track everything you eat, and your workouts…and it does the rest for you. It’s called “loseit” and we love it. We also apply lots of principles we learned on previous adventures with weight watchers….however, we decided this app does the same thing…for free. how can you go wrong? Check it out!
Welcome to “Mommy’s on a Diet”
12 MayHi There! So, welcome to my blog! (That was for both me and you…since this is my first time blogging). If you’re here, following me… well, i hope i can provide something valuable for you now and then. This blog has been designed for me to document my weightloss journey as a working mom, who spends a lot of time in restaurants, hotels and airports. This started when my husband and I joined a weight loss competition in January, 2013, and lost about 25 lbs in 11 weeks. This is my place to document the continuation of that journey. I love to cook, and have been trying lots of great new recipes since “lightening up” our lifestyle. We’ve also started working out at the local Y, which I enjoy more than I ever expected I would. So I’ll be posting things like Recipes, Favorite restaurant foods, exercise plans, and general updates on my progress… the good, the bad, and… the tasty 🙂
So, welcome to my blog! This is intended as a spot for me to document my journey with weight loss, and learning to live a healthier lifestyle- one day at a time. My husband and I are significantly overweight. This most recent adventure began when we joined a weight loss competition in January, 2013 and lost about 25 lbs each in 11 weeks. This blog is the continuation of that journey…. the motivation to keep going “After the final weigh in.”
I’m a working mom who travels quite a bit, and spends a lot of time in restaurants. I also enjoy cooking, and have been trying lots of new stuff since we’ve lightened up our lifestyle.
I recently began working out about 5-6 days a week at the local Y, and I’m liking it more than I ever thought I would.
So, i’ll be using this space to share recipes, restaurant favorites, photos, updates, exercise info and other details about my journey. I hope that if you find yourself on the page, i have been able to provide something helpful for you, on your journey. See you around 😉



